Ben Weins

Becoming a therapist as a second career has been a great decision for me. While I enjoyed my first career in higher education and data management, I realized in my early forties that what I really valued was the deeper conversations in life. What are we experiencing that is really difficult and hurtful? What are we experiencing that is really joyful and meaningful? I think we all have these experiences, and I chose to become a therapist to provide a safe and confidential place to discuss these important areas that need time and careful reflection.

I truly care for the clients I meet with and want to help those who are hurting or feeling disconnected experience something better. I frequently work with individual men, couples, and families to foster emotional vulnerability and relational connection. When relationships are deepened and strengthened, people often find that life feels more balanced and more fulfilling. For this reason, my work with clients often focuses on communication and relational connection.

I think in today’s culture, many of our interactions often occur at a surface level—brief text exchanges, social media posts, and so many additional forms of rapid communication. Within the therapeutic relationship, however, there is space to go deeper, and we can bring our whole selves, exploring the values that hold deep personal significance. In contrast, I view therapy as a space where a person’s individuality is honored, and their existing knowledge and life experiences are respected. I genuinely look forward to meeting with you.